I apologize for my lack of blogging. I find that when I’m pregnant, I’m understandably moody, tired, hungry, and forgetful, but my ability to articulate thoughts evaporates. JT tells me that I’m starting to sound like Yoda and right is he. It’s annoying, but I suppose that means the lil’ fetus is developing nicely. Last night I dreamt that I gave birth to a kid, a baby goat that is. It really got weird when I tried to nurse it… my brain is starting to frighten me.
I’m 15 weeks along and met with our new midwife (I’ll call her Midwife C) for the first time last Saturday. Koen was caught by a different midwife in a hospital. It was a fantastic natural birth experience, but this time we’re going for the home birth. Another major difference will be that we’re not finding out the gender. Midwife C opposes sonograms of all kinds (including a fetal doppler) and while we could still get a sonogram, we figure “when in Rome”… That also means that we won’t actually hear the heartbeat until “the baby can give me a good thump”- around 18-20 weeks. By 15 weeks with K, I’d already had two sonograms, a miscarriage scare, heard the heartbeat, and switched from an OB/Gyn to the midwives. Not to mention all of the tests… I kind of like the relaxed pace of the “old-fashioned” way (that was my OB’s response when I asked if they worked with midwives). The irony is that I can’t think of anything more old-fashioned that reproducing.
The majority of Midwife C’s families choose to birth in the water, which I had hoped to try with Koen. I don’t know if hospital policy would’ve allowed me to push in the water… the little guy was in a hurry so we didn’t have time to find out. This time I think we’ll be borrowing a jimmy-rigged, horse trough to birth in! Yee-haw!
April 22, 2009 at 7:34 pm
It is all very exciting Les! I hope that you are taking it slow and taking care of yourself. Maybe you should keep the horse trough, put it in the back yard, and plant…um…lettuce! Years down the road you can tell the new little one, “That’s where you were born honey.”
April 24, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Hooray for home birth! It was good running into you at the park the other day. Enjoying the blog…
April 30, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Dear Leslie,
It was great to get an update about your pregnancy. Leo and I are very excited about having a home birth. Our midwife just left the house a minute ago.
I love the horse trough…that cracks me up! Leo’s sister bought a birthing pool after her first baby and said we could borrow it if we want to. I was joking around (kind-of) about putting it on the back porch and having the baby outside under the trees.
Hope all is well and continues to be well. We miss you Tenjacks!
May 3, 2009 at 7:53 am
Hey there Les!
Congratulations on your pregnancy!
Misses you….
Lotsa Love from London
Suzanne